I explore the concept of "dead people goals" and why they’re harmful to your progress in overcoming pornography. I share examples of common dead people goals, and how to reframe your goals in a healthier, more achievable way.
The breakthroughs that allowed Sam to finally quit porn for good after 20 years. And how overcoming his porn habit improved every area of Sam's life, from his marriage to his career, and his thoughts on the long-term impact of investing in yourself.
Do you feel more antsy in your physical body as you view less porn? Maybe you can’t stop bouncing your legs or find yourself constantly fidgeting, and maybe it’s leading to a strong urge to view porn so you can stop feeling so antsy.
Most of you who first come to me are trying to quit the pornography habit from a place of self-loathing and hate. You believe that if you can just learn how to quit, you’ll finally be able to approach yourself with the love and kindness you deserve. But the truth is this never works.
